Welcome to Swanner Life Solutions

Whether you are in a long standing monogamous relationship, exploring polyamory, or diving into a kinky lifestyle, with the help of a compassionate coach you can build the authentic relationships that you desire. Together we can discover deeper communication, set healthy boundaries, and create joyful connections in all of your relationships.

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Our Services

Relationship Coaching

Reignite your passion!

Relationship coaching can help you rediscover your spark. Together we can improve communication skills, enhance self-esteem, uncover the patterns that are inhibiting your connection and implement new strategies to magnify intimacy!

Struggling with a specific problem? Looking to deepen your connection? Let's work together to reach your goals and build the relationship that you desire.

Contact me today and schedule your complimentary introductory session!

Polyamory Coaching

Build and maintain the authentic relationships that you crave.

Whether you are brand new to ENM or in a long established polycule, we can work together to navigate complex emotions, ease relationship transitions, and manage conflict effectively to allow your relationships to grow and thrive.

Let's work together to improve communication, establish healthy boundaries, and manage practical issues like time and scheduling.

Contact me today for a free introductory session!

Kink Coaching

Explore your fantasies and make them a part of your reality.

Whether you are looking to spice up the bedroom or integrate kink into your daily life, together we can strengthen communication, enhance trust, improve self-confidence, and build the dynamic that you crave.

Been involved in the Kink lifestyle for a long time and feeling stuck in the same routine, let's work together to deepen connection, further exploration, and reignite the spark that originally drew you to this lifestyle.

Everything starts with a conversation in a judgement-free enviornment. Contact me today for a free introductory session!

Who is Swanner Life Solutions?

My name is Tori Swanner.

I am a certified life and relationship coach with a BS in Psychology. In addition, I am a bisexual woman with over 20 years of personal experience in the polyamory community and more than a decade in the BDSM lifestyle. I am passionate about helping other people become comfortable with themselves and their relationship needs and desires.